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May is here, and with it comes Mental Health Awareness Month – a vital opportunity to reflect on our emotional wellbeing and prioritize our mental health. In South Africa, as in the United States, the statistics are concerning: a significant portion of the population struggles with mental health challenges. It's estimated that one in five adults experiences a mental health condition in any given year. This month, let's move beyond awareness and focus on action. Here are five practical tips to help you prioritise your mental health, starting today.

1. Acknowledge and Validate Your Feelings

Often, we try to suppress or ignore difficult emotions. This only makes them stronger in the long run. This Mental Health Awareness Month, commit to acknowledging your feelings – whether it's sadness, anxiety, frustration, or anger. Simply saying to yourself, “I feel sad today, and that’s okay,” can be incredibly powerful. Validation is key; your feelings are real and deserve to be recognised. Don’t judge them; just observe them.

2. Prioritise Self-Care – Beyond the Bubble Baths

Self-care isn't just about luxurious treats; it’s about consistently engaging in activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul. This could include anything from getting enough sleep and eating nutritious food to spending time in nature, reading a good book, or listening to music. Think about what truly recharges you – what activities leave you feeling refreshed and grounded? Schedule these activities into your week, just as you would any other important appointment.

3. Connect with Others – Build Your Support Network

Humans are social creatures, and strong social connections are vital for mental wellbeing. Make an effort to connect with friends, family, or support groups. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with someone you trust can provide immense relief and perspective. If you’re feeling isolated, consider joining a club or volunteering – these are great ways to meet new people and build meaningful relationships. Don't underestimate the power of a simple phone call or a coffee date.

4. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques

Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment. Practicing mindfulness can help reduce stress, improve focus, and increase self-awareness. There are many simple techniques you can try, such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or yoga. Even just five minutes of mindful breathing each day can make a difference. Numerous apps and online resources can guide you through these practices.

5. Seek Professional Help When Needed

It’s okay to ask for help. If you’re struggling with your mental health, don’t hesitate to reach out to a therapist, counsellor, or doctor. Mental health is just as important as physical health, and seeking professional support is a sign of strength, not weakness. There are many affordable and accessible mental health services available in South Africa. Remember, you don't have to go through this alone.

This Mental Health Awareness Month, let’s commit to making our mental wellbeing a priority. Small changes can lead to significant improvements in our overall health and happiness. Take care of yourself, and remember that you are not alone.