FridayOL

Summer's here, and for a whole lot of Aussies, that means diving back into the nostalgic world of Cousins Beach. Inspired by Jenny Han's wildly popular young adult novels, The Summer I Turned Pretty (or TSITP to those in the know) is back, and the buzz is bigger than ever. But with all the excitement surrounding Belly, Conrad, Jeremiah, and the rest of the crew, a crucial message is emerging: let's keep the fandom respectful and avoid crossing the line.

The series, now streaming on Prime Video, has captured the hearts of a generation with its relatable portrayal of first love, friendship, and the bittersweet pangs of growing up. The fictional seaside town of Cousins has become a virtual escape for fans, who eagerly dissect every scene, theorise about future relationships, and share their own experiences online. However, the intensity of the fandom has, at times, spilled over into concerning behaviour directed at the actors and the creative team behind the show.

The Problem: Fandom Frenzy and Respect for Boundaries

We've seen examples of fans sending harassing messages to the actors, creating unrealistic expectations, and generally behaving in ways that are disrespectful and harmful. While passionate enthusiasm is understandable—and frankly, a testament to the show’s impact—it shouldn't come at the expense of others' well-being. Remember, these are real people with lives and feelings, just like you and me.

Why This Matters – Beyond the Screen

The impact of online harassment can be devastating. Actors, particularly young ones, are vulnerable to the pressures of fame and the scrutiny of social media. Creating a toxic online environment only amplifies these challenges and can have long-lasting consequences. It's vital to remember that the characters we love are portrayed by talented individuals who deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.

How to Be a Great TSITP Fan (the Right Way!)

• Focus on the Story: Appreciate the beautifully crafted narrative and the complex relationships.
• Respect the Actors: Remember they are the artists bringing the story to life. Avoid sending unsolicited messages, making inappropriate comments, or stalking their social media.
• Engage Positively: Join online discussions, share fan theories, and celebrate the show’s successes—but always do so with respect and consideration for others.
• Recognise Boundaries: Actors are entitled to their privacy. Don’t try to pry into their personal lives or make assumptions about their relationships.
• Promote Kindness: Be an advocate for positivity within the fandom. Call out disrespectful behaviour and encourage others to do the same.

The Summer I Turned Pretty is a show to be enjoyed, celebrated, and discussed. Let's ensure that our enthusiasm doesn't overshadow the importance of respect, kindness, and healthy boundaries. This summer, let's focus on the love and drama within the show, and leave the unhealthy obsession behind. After all, a little perspective goes a long way – especially when it comes to matters of the heart (and fandom!).

So grab your beach towel, settle in for a rewatch, and remember: enjoy the series, but always be a respectful fan.